10 ways to comfort a laboring woman

to all the MOM's out there who happen to be slightly interested in reading this blog of my life and pregnancy....

is this list accurate? should anything be removed and/or am I missing anything?

10 Ways to Comfort a Laboring Woman

1. Massage her face to help release stress and relax her.
2. Remind her to go to the bathroom every hour. A full bladder is not only uncomfortable but can stall labor.
3. Try cool compresses on her neck and face. Even lightly washing her face can feel good when she's working so hard.
4. Encourage her to drink fluids and eat to comfort if her care providers will allow it. Eating and drinking will help restore used energy for the marathon of labor.
5. Help her change positions to encourage the progress of labor. Some positions will provide pain relief, others may feel more painful. Do what works for her.
6. If her back is hurting do counter pressure with your hands on the small of her back (or wherever she says to do it) as hard as she likes. Doing this in the hands and knees position will also help with the pain.
7. Be there for her. Even when she may say that she doesn't wish to be touched, being there for her is very important. Just stand near her so that she can feel your presence and verbally encourage her.
8. Try the shower or tub. Water in labor is very good for pain relief of all sorts.
9. Use a heat pad, rice sock or warm blanket to her lower back, limbs or perineum (at the end) to help her.
10. Remind her of why she's doing this: The baby!

It's getting closer and closer to the BIG day and honestly I'm starting to get a little nervous. Dave and I have decided that we should probably take some sort of Lamaze class, but I hope it's not too late to sign up. I've forgotten that Dave has NEVER experienced a birth or a "laboring woman," so I think it would be best for us to learn dome breathing techniques. He refuses to watch a delivery because he wants it to be "special" and "our experience" (Ha! GOOD LUCK)